Monday, November 29, 2010

IS THER ANY HAPPINESS IN DRUGS??????

Tanaisha Tatum
english 101
11/29/2010
If pharmaceuticals drugs didn't exist the world would still go round.there is a mental fulfillment and major profit for drug companies  that's why prescription pills has gone this far.there is no justification for the use of drugs.drugs has become an dependency for issue,situations and problems.still over the millions of years that people have been introduced to drugs there has not been anyone who has proven a success in happiness  that is not momentarily from the drug.i do not believe that you can find happiness in taking drugs,however drugs can be  used as a gateway to escape reality.
many times people turn to substances such as drugs to change the state the of mind that they are in .taking anti depressants such as Prozac takes and mental affect on your mind because it only make you feel a change for a certain period of time and once time has passed the issue or problem is still at hand.there is no positive correlation with happiness and drugs .there is actually an unbalanced  relationship with being happy and taking drugs.when you first take a anti-depressant it leaves a affect on you as feeling better when less than an hour you will feel as if you never took it,which will cause you to want another one.that is where the chain of addiction forms .that is the first step in which  is proven that there is no happiness in taking drugs.
every person who takes a anti depressant is a  factor in the booming business but is not a factor of happiness.this is considered a major problem.(should we all be on  anti depressants because of this)no but what we should realize is that drugs lead to addiction which increase profits.drugs do not increase your happiness.after taking these pills  you will easily  turn into a dependant which boost the pharmaceutical business. in the pursuit of happiness by Dr.e McCormick  page 31 sites  some statistics such as in 1995 the world wide sales were at $700 billion which drugs were no longer content merely to manufacture but pharmaceutical  companies are drawing ever so close to the consumer.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

what i am greatful for

I am grateful for plenty of thing however narrowing them down to three I am grateful for being alive, my family and my son. I am greatful for my son because he means a lot me.my son motivates me.from me being prenate to actual birth and where we are today brings me complete joy.parenting is the best thing that ever happened to me.my son has made me value more things in life.i am greatful for my son because he keeps me going when i am feeling like there is no one there or giving up he is the reason why i try harder ang keep going.it might sounds weired but a baby can change someone tremendously.my son opened my eyes and i am greatful that i have him to unconditionally love, teach ,and share every experience of the world with.i am grateful for my familybecause they are here to support me ,love me and  guide me though life.i am greatful because everyone dose not have family  and i feel that i wouldnt be nothing if i was here in the world alone.my family raised me,showed me love and stuck with me through thick in thin.my family watch my son while i go to work and school,my family is always there for me no matter whati dont know what i would do without my family but i do know that i am grateful to have them.i am also greaful to be alive if i was dead i would not experience the bueaty that like brings. alot of people loose there lives at young ages and i am happy that i am not one of them .i am greatful for being alive enjoying life with my family and experiencing the joy of my son

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

love

In order for people to cultivate themselves in happier relationships with there loved ones they  must be willing to make changes. No relationship will ever be perfect but making improvements in small areas that may have a negative impact on the other party can make a big difference.Change has to always start with you before you can make changes in a companion or spouse.Working on your problems first is always a good way of showing that you feel its things that both individuals can work on to make things better. In a relationship there can always be improvement is in attitudes toward one another and behavior. It is also very important to be open minded, forgiving, trust worthy and not judgemental.
Making sacrifices for one another can help keep happiness in a relationship. It is important to never let pride be the reason for making a damaging decision. sacrifices are hard  to make but  beneficial to both people in the relationship.holding back prevents arguments and avoid a lot of potential problems.personally i have learned that making sacrifice's in a relationship shows how much a person really care and if you have a partner who is argumentative sometimes you may have to  sacrifice getting the last word just to have peace.(its hard but it work)
many times people  cannot experience  true happiness in a relationship  is because  they might be holding something  in on the inside about the other person which gives them synthetic happiness with the other individual. have you ever wondered why  something just wouldn’t work? or why are you and your partner always arguing? maybe its because they have done something in the past that you have not forgiving them for and it always gets in the way.for a relationship to work you must be open to forgiveness because everyone makes mistakes.forgiving a person opens up a new bond between the two you are able to look pass what ever things that were done wrong to you,and began a new start which will help you be happier in a relationship.
cultivating a happier relationship also deals with being open minded in cultivating over finding(page 120 say’s you must be willing) society say that there is a right person for every one.which i donnot believe is true it is your choice to change that theroy.every relationship haves its ups and downs  and if you spend your life looking for the “right one” by the time you find them it will be too late to enjoy them.i believe that if you find someone that you are interested in and they are interested in you as well you can make it work.if two people are willing to do what ever it takes to build happiness in a relationship it can happen.
happiness begins with you it is soley based on each individual who wants it.something as simple as creating an happy environment  changes the people around you .happiness in relationships are significant it helps build a long lasting bond.to become happier in a relationship evaluate what ever problems are at hand .see what issues are getting in the way or your happiness  be willing and open minded to changes and it will work.