In order for people to cultivate themselves in happier relationships with there loved ones they must be willing to make changes. No relationship will ever be perfect but making improvements in small areas that may have a negative impact on the other party can make a big difference.Change has to always start with you before you can make changes in a companion or spouse.Working on your problems first is always a good way of showing that you feel its things that both individuals can work on to make things better. In a relationship there can always be improvement is in attitudes toward one another and behavior. It is also very important to be open minded, forgiving, trust worthy and not judgemental.
Making sacrifices for one another can help keep happiness in a relationship. It is important to never let pride be the reason for making a damaging decision. sacrifices are hard to make but beneficial to both people in the relationship.holding back prevents arguments and avoid a lot of potential problems.personally i have learned that making sacrifice's in a relationship shows how much a person really care and if you have a partner who is argumentative sometimes you may have to sacrifice getting the last word just to have peace.(its hard but it work)
many times people cannot experience true happiness in a relationship is because they might be holding something in on the inside about the other person which gives them synthetic happiness with the other individual. have you ever wondered why something just wouldn’t work? or why are you and your partner always arguing? maybe its because they have done something in the past that you have not forgiving them for and it always gets in the way.for a relationship to work you must be open to forgiveness because everyone makes mistakes.forgiving a person opens up a new bond between the two you are able to look pass what ever things that were done wrong to you,and began a new start which will help you be happier in a relationship.
cultivating a happier relationship also deals with being open minded in cultivating over finding(page 120 say’s you must be willing) society say that there is a right person for every one.which i donnot believe is true it is your choice to change that theroy.every relationship haves its ups and downs and if you spend your life looking for the “right one” by the time you find them it will be too late to enjoy them.i believe that if you find someone that you are interested in and they are interested in you as well you can make it work.if two people are willing to do what ever it takes to build happiness in a relationship it can happen.
happiness begins with you it is soley based on each individual who wants it.something as simple as creating an happy environment changes the people around you .happiness in relationships are significant it helps build a long lasting bond.to become happier in a relationship evaluate what ever problems are at hand .see what issues are getting in the way or your happiness be willing and open minded to changes and it will work.
Dear Lovely Tanisha, I loved hearing your personal outlook on cultivating a better relationship.It helped me notice my struggles within my 3year relationhsip with my partner and how i can fix them to make the relationship better.
ReplyDeleteAdvice on your essay would be for your intro i think you should put an essay map which will talk about what your essay will be about .i would consider making your 1st para. your 2nd and adding a intro(just my opinion). in the second para. what do you mean by Holding back you explain how it prevents arugents and aviods problems. But by holding too much back you might just explode and create a bigger problem wont it? thats also just my opinion.
In para. 4 when you say page 120, from where? you might want to clearify . last but not least in the last para. is it your conclusion? if so i suggest summing up your essay a little better.
Thank you for letting me read your personal outlooks it sure has gave me great advice!